Picking Out Your Dream Wedding Dress: A Bride’s Ultimate Guide
- Abby Purcell
- Oct 6, 2024
- 3 min read
Updated: Oct 8, 2024

Your wedding dress is one of the most memorable (and exciting!) parts of your big day. It's the gown you’ll wear when you say “I do,” the one captured in countless photos and videos, and a symbol of your personal style and love story. Whether you’ve been dreaming of your wedding dress since childhood or you’re just beginning to envision your look, finding “the one” is a special journey.
Here are some tips to help you pick out your dream wedding dress:
1. Start Early, But Not Too Early
It's never too soon to start dreaming about your dress, but when it comes to shopping, aim to start about 9-12 months before your wedding day. This allows enough time for ordering, alterations, and final fittings without feeling rushed. If your timeline is tighter, don't worry—many bridal shops offer rush options, or you can explore ready-to-wear collections.
Pro tip: Even if you’re excited to try on dresses, avoid shopping too early as your style or wedding theme may evolve.
2. Set a Realistic Budget
Before you fall in love with a gown, it’s important to know how much you’re comfortable spending. Your wedding dress budget should include the cost of the dress itself, plus alterations, accessories (veil, shoes, jewelry), and any additional customizations. Setting a budget upfront helps narrow down your options and keeps the shopping process focused.
Pro tip: Don’t forget to ask about hidden costs, like shipping fees or rush charges if you're working on a tight timeline.
3. Consider Your Wedding Theme and Venue
Your dress should reflect your wedding theme and venue. A formal ballroom wedding may call for a glamorous ball gown, while a breezy beach ceremony might be better suited for a lightweight design. Keep in mind the season and weather as well—comfort is key when you’re spending all day in your dress.
Pro tip: Bring photos of your venue or theme inspiration to help guide your dress consultant in finding styles that match the overall vibe of your day.
4. Be Open to Trying Different Styles
You may have your heart set on a specific style, but it’s always a good idea to try on a few different silhouettes and fabrics. You might be surprised by what looks best on your body! Sometimes, a style you didn’t expect to love ends up being the perfect one. Bridal consultants are experts at helping you find the right fit for your body shape and personality.
Pro tip: A-line, ball gown, mermaid, and sheath are all worth trying to see what makes you feel most beautiful and confident.
5. Bring Supportive Guests
When you’re ready to start trying on dresses, bring along a few trusted friends or family members. These should be people who understand your style and whose opinions you value—but be careful not to invite too many! Too many voices can lead to confusion. Ultimately, the decision is yours, so surround yourself with positivity and encouragement.
Pro tip: Limit your entourage to 2-3 people who know you best and will offer constructive feedback without overwhelming you.
6. Think About Comfort
While looking stunning is important, you also want to feel comfortable. Consider how you’ll move in your dress, especially for the ceremony and reception. Will you be able to dance, sit, and enjoy your meal? Make sure your dress not only looks good but feels good too—you’ll be wearing it for many hours!
Pro tip: If you’re worried about comfort, consider having a second, more casual dress for the reception, so you can dance the night away with ease.
7. Trust Your Instincts
When you find “the one,” you’ll know. It’s that feeling of confidence, beauty, and excitement all wrapped into one moment. Don’t overthink it—if you love the way you look and feel in a dress, and you can picture yourself walking down the aisle in it, that’s a strong sign it’s the right gown for you.
Pro tip: If you feel unsure, don’t rush the decision. Sleep on it, or revisit the dress at a second appointment to be sure it’s your perfect match.
Your dream wedding dress is out there, and the journey to finding it should be as fun and joyful as the moment you walk down the aisle! Remember to take your time, trust your instincts, and enjoy the experience of discovering the dress that will make you feel like the stunning bride you are.
Fabulous bridal shops that we love here at WEDFEST can be found here. Check them out!
Happy dress shopping!
The WEDFEST Team xxx